DRESS CODE:  The dress code is always casual with no theme requested, as we do not have a specific dress code unless recommended for such public event.  Semi-sexy attire is welcomed, and yet there are those that are more daring and dress up "sexier," but never feel obligated to do so. The main thing is, come mingle and have fun!

AFTER-PARTY:  After the hotel ballroom gathering, there is the optional after-party gathering where couples attend, and depending on size and popular vote, become either hotel or house party guests.  Some may want to stay overnight or others may elect to get more comfortable and secure their own hotel room.  The atmosphere there is much more private and suitable for maximum closeness.  There is no requirement to participate in the after-party and the liberty is always there to be comfortable in just pajamas or "bare as you dare."  Not all may want to go to a swingers’ house after-party, therefore, some guests at the Meet & Greet may elect to return home, stay behind to mingle more at that public setting, or return with us to a more comfortable location!

HOUSE PARTIES:  A private house party isn't open to everyone if the is crowd larger than we can handle; therefore, we may have to be very selective on who is asked to come.  This is our way of keeping the neighborhood happy and quiet; and don't won't to offend families with small children of seeing an accidental exposure or overhearing a non-appropriate conversation outside. Those invited and made reservations to stay with us overnight will be allowed to do so, else, make hotel reservations separately.  A House Party generally first consists of a public Meet and Greet.  The focus would be getting to know each other in a kosher way first and a perfect time to get to know someone invited or kindle-up a new friendship. Then perhaps at the house, we will mingle and socialize the evening away with more privacy. However, at a house party, perhaps dress “bare as you dare;” or wear the pajamas that you feel most comfortable in wearing.  When in the public arena, you may NOT dress revealing as you would in private.

RSVP:  Steps and measures require you to have a profile posted on SLS and to R.S.V.P. your profile name from there, as it also helps to know whom is attending all upfront and also glorify the club's attendance list. If you can't post a public profile, simply do so with a different city of residence and don't post a picture for the world to see.  The main objective to RSVP is because we refuse to post the address or location to any adult party publically, whereas your RSVP is your ticket to that location and entry; just don't RSVP and submit your Membership "at the last minute," as this takes from the pre-launch party preparation stage.  When a party is in PROGRESS, please do NOT be selfish and intend to join the Membership just for that event AT THE LAST MINUTE and expect to be further instructed regarding that corresponding event WHILE it is happening, as that takes away from the current focus.  Simply, we seek to know how many to prepare for upfront, and not be interrupted during pre-launch (before startup).

PRIVATE INVITES: Typically for a private house party, communicate within our group. Regardless, you should be on our membership list with FULL details about all that we ask for. Simply submit to us all of the requested membership details about you before you seek to attend any event.  The address to our event requires you to be a member and to RSVP.

LOCATION:  We NEVER publicly post a location to any of our events, but do so only to FULL Members that RSVP and communicate with us for that event's location to be privately accepted and notified of such address and directions.  Most of our public events are listed in the "Events" section at SwingLifestyle.com (see below).  Adding yourself there to the Party Attending List adds glory to the club as well as encourages others to attend the posted function, but doesn't guarantee entry into a party. By only with communication, approval of your membership, and your RSVP on SLS, will thus insure your entrance.  Be sure that you have read and agreed to our "Club Rules" and visited our "Membership" page.  Communication with us is simple with the many posted contact options found on our "Contact Us" page.  We do encourage you to go further and add yourself to Yahoo Group.  For best results, call us and ask for the "Monkey Couple."

MEET & GREETS:  When it comes to maximizing your time to gather around with lifestyle friends longer, we strive to make that possible for you with a Meet & Greet or at the Pre-Party.  We know it's been a tough year for every one and many have been out of work, thus a Meet & Greet fits the bill.  Perhaps a free function such as Karaoke, Dutch-treat dinner, take-out or covered-dish to a Pre-Party.  Unless the host/establishment of that particular party location requests an entry fee, in that case, we'll post a cover charge and/or split for food & drink. In the event of a Hospitality Room at a hotel is offered, it will be paid for by the donations of a generous couple or single booking such a room in their name.  Examples of Meet & Greets:  30 cent wings & $1 beers at a local restaurant, Karaoke bar, open-mic night, see a band,  G-Spot Teaching Seminar, or van rides to another swingers' function/group.

CO-SPONSOR:  Would you like for us to help with your own private Lifestyle event for just you and/or your interest group as mentioned on our MEMBERSHIP PAGE?  Optionally, you ask for us to request for others to attend, or just ask for us and us alone.  Regardless of whom we bring (your option), each one has been carefully interviewed and screened!   Consisting of a small group of couples (never a huge crowd), or request our whole group to be notified, your private party will NEVER be publicly listed, unless you specify it.  This keeps things more personal and private.  At times, we may attend a Hotel party function from another group as a added blessing to assist in their attendance.  We'll be glad to post any outside group's public party to our entire group if we are VIP and personally invited.

SLS:  The massive and popular Lifestyle profile site SwingLifeStyle.com, also known as "SLS", is where we post all of our upcoming public events. This is the most recommended place to meet others within the Lifestyle.  SLS offers free memberships with the liberty to view and email others.  With their "Add me to the list of attendees" feature, MonkeyCouple.com can know exactly upfront who plans on attending our posted venue function.  They also offer monthly, annual and Lifetime Memberships with full benefits.  To join for FREE, click on the banner below.

Remember, signing up on SLS alone does not reserve you to a spot at our next event, you must have a FULL and ACTIVE Membership on file with any club event you wish to attend.  Simple verbal contact only with us in making that reservation is not sufficient; again, you must follow simple steps and measures such as having FULL and ACTIVE Membership with us to attend any event we host.  Why?  Because we get your vow to keep details private, and, only those whom RSVP and have FULL ACTIVE Membership will know the exact location of such event.  To protect our members, details of our exact party locations may be first given to you over the phone if we don’t know you.

VOLUNTEERS:  Generally, if you are making your plans to be with us and intend to help with a party, do so by all means. Perhaps you may stay overnight with us at our home.  If interested in assisting, then by all means commit your time, chip in, volunteer and we will move a party forward and start plans.  Single Males would be allowed if agreed to help or are privately selected, or unless he is co-sponsored during the entire event by a couple or single female personally, then he must enter and leave with his sponsor. Any VIP member is welcome to donate the use of their hotel room as the prime-mate's "hospitality room." Perhaps two prosperous couples or single males would like coordinate their rooms side-by-side?  Volunteer positions are:  Party Coordinator, VIP Co-Host, DJ Assistant, Buffet Table setup & assistance, Security, Door Greeter Assistant, and After-Party Help, etc. 

 LIFESTYLE DJ ROCKIN' RAJ